The church is dead

The church is now openly hostile to masculinity and conditions men to loathe their own sexuality. Young men know the church is a joke.

Men cannot serve the institutional church at the expense of obedience to God.

The time for revolution has come.

The institutional church went apostate in the Apostle Paul’s lifetime (2 Tim 1:15). He warned that in the “last days” we’d face “perilous periods” where men would have a “form of devoutness” yet deny its power (2 Tim 3).

We are living in these last days.

The church indeed has a “form of devoutness.” They have the rituals and religious chants to create an illusion of godliness.

Yet they attack the very image of God.

Feminists call it “toxic masculinity.”

Religious charlatans call it “concupiscence” or “sin nature.”

Men have been shamed by the church for centuries. The church has perpetuated this shame through:

1. Legal punishment
2. Suppression of information

Now the powers of church and state are separated. And the internet has liberated information. The church has no power.

The gospel-liberated man is a confident man.

After death, you will be resurrected with a superior body and live forever. You are literally an unstoppable force of good.

How long will it take men to realize that the church offers no redemption? You are redeemed through CHRIST.

Sooner or later, intelligent truth-seeking men will be forced into open revolt against the church.

The body of Christ is not contained by institutional walls. It is an ASSEMBLY of true believers.

The church is in decline. The assembly will reassemble.

When the true believers reassemble, we will not need the institutional church.

“People driving a school bus blindfolded (and crashed it) should never be given a new bus.”


Our “spiritual shepherds” have crashed the bus. They have lost their right to lead us.

It is up to MEN to rise up and build the new tribes of the post-church world.

We have no respect for Churchians. We serve the True King.

When you’re ready to get down to business, read this:

Why I listen to girl pop

This may sound weird, but if you want to increase your masculine energy, listen to girl pop music.

For many years, I secretly enjoyed such music but couldn’t place why I found it inspiring. Until @AJA_Cortes explained:

Feminine music draws out masculine energy in you.

Most guys have trouble truly getting inside a woman’s head. They learn some abstract concepts like hypergamy and think they understand women.

But you don’t understand women until you can grasp the emotional nuances of a woman’s world. Song lyrics are a great way to wise up.

Here’s a few examples:

Will you still love me
When I’m no longer young and beautiful?
Will you still love me
When I’ve got nothing but my aching soul?
I know you will, I know you will
I know that you will

“Young and Beautiful”, Lana Del Ray

My body needs a hero
Come and save me
Something tells me you know how to save me
I’ve been feeling real low
Oh, I need you to come and rescue me

“Turn Me On”, David Gueetta w/ Nicki Minaj

I am a wild one, break me in
Saddle me up and lets begin
I am a wild one, tame me now
Running with wolves and I’m on the prowl

“Wild Ones”, Flo Rida w/ Sia

And all of my friends who think that I’m blessed
They don’t know my head is a mess
No, they don’t know who I really am
And they don’t know what
I’ve been through like you do
And I was made for you

“The Story”, Brandi Carlile

I need a hero
I’m holding out for a hero ’til the end of the night
He’s gotta be strong
And he’s gotta be fast
And he’s gotta be fresh from the fight

“Holding Out for a Hero”, Bonnie Tyler

If you only judge women by their outward behavior, you’ll miss the point. There is a poetry to feminine desire. If you fail to grasp this, you’ll continue to be baffled by women even after the red pill.

Listen to female artists. Pay attention to the lyrics and mood.

For more smart tips for masculine development, check out my article:

Red pill reality check

Here’s the bottom line for having a solid relationship with a woman:

  1. Does she feel inadequate in your presence?
  2. Does she feel safe with you?
  3. Do you invest in her beautification?

Women want to feel beautiful and be with a superior man who can protect her.

Imagine a man who has no momentum in life. Over time, he becomes less physically fit, more stressed, less ambitious.

He’s become a loser in his wife’s eyes.

And imagine that same man posting on red pill forums complaining about the “evils” of hypergamy and how marriage screwed him over.

Absurd, right?

Now imagine a man with no ability to survive in the real world. His woman was attracted to him because he had creative ambition and hope for the future.

But after all these years, he can’t produce an income. She wonders if she’s married a bum. She’s stressed from her work.

Finally, imagine a man who thinks it’s “too expensive” to buy high-quality food even though they could afford to eat like kings. And he never gives her money to buy sexy clothes.

He prides himself as a “conservative.” His wife dresses “modestly.” 

Then he wonders why she’s unwilling to “perform her marital duty.”

I’ve witnessed a lot of divorces growing up. I am not dismissing the woman’s responsibility in the separation.

But guys, this stuff doesn’t just spring up out of nowhere.

Play your part well. And if she’s too psychotic to appreciate a high-quality man, it’s her loss.

The good news is… You don’t have to be perfect. You just need to be making continuous progress. Women are responsive to momentum in a man.

If you need a starting point to get your life in momentum, go here:

Your wife is not a lab rat

So stop trying to “lead” her through rewards and punishments.

This philosophy is known as “behaviorism” and it will lead to (at best) a lot of work or (at worst) a relationship blowup.

Here’s why this approach is so dangerous…

Behaviorism is dangerous because it (sort of) works. People do respond in the short-run to rewards and punishments.

If you deliberately withhold your attention when she “misbehaves” or praise her for “good behavior”, she will respond.

But here’s the problem:

She will ONLY change that one particular behavior and she’ll STOP acting according to your preferences when the rewards/punishments stop.

That’s a lot of work.

Plus, she may resent the fact that you’re trying to control her.

Thankfully, there’s an easier way…

Addressing behavior is only dealing with the surface problem.

You’ve got to get to the ROOT.

Women (and anyone) behave in certain ways because of their IDENTITY… who they believe themselves to be.


Change the identity, and the behaviors change naturally.

How do you change a woman’s identity?


Give her nicknames. Do it in a teasing way or during her bedroom climaxes.

She’s a “feminine girl”, your “sexy little kitten,” your “fertile housewife,” etc.

Soon enough, she will change her behaviors to match her identities.

Influencing someone through identity is a long-term strategy.

You won’t see immediate results, but you will see PERMANENT results.

In the end, the rewards-and-punishments approach doesn’t last. Plus, it’s kind of coercive.

Identity change beats behavior control every time.

I talk a lot about women and sex in my free Tribe Builders email course. You’d be surprised how much more simple and pleasant things become when you ignore the online chatter and just get back to the basics.

Sign up here:

Gillette is hurting women

This new stupid #GilletteAd is hurting women more than men.

Here’s the thing:

Men who are confident in their masculinity don’t pay attention to shit like that. They’re used to be shamed for being a man and they don’t care.

But imagine being a woman watching that…

Women are biologically attracted to masculine men… yet they are brainwashed into thinking such men are “toxic.”

What she consciously believes to be the ideal man directly contradicts her natural desires.

It is really women who live in a constant state of shame and guilt.

Masculine men are always “shit tested.” This media propaganda is simply another one of those tests.

However, I am concerned for my daughter, who will grow up in a world where weak men are exalted and masculine men are deemed “toxic.”

She’s going to have some confusion.

As men, it is our duty to protect our tribe from such nonsense.

Secure the perimeter.

Provide safety.

Let your people live lives of natural happiness… free from these greedy manipulators who pervert the natural order.

If you need a map, go here:

The Biblical secret to arousing a woman

Here’s a “shortcut” way to arouse a woman, straight from the Holy Bible:

“Do not stare at me because I am dark, because I am darkened by the sun. My mother’s sons were angry with me and made me take care of the vineyards; my own vineyard I had to neglect.”

Song of Solomon 1:7

Men are taught that women are aroused by praise: make her feel beautiful.

In reality, it is the feeling of inadequacy that triggers both arousal and submission in a woman.

Inadequacy means lacking what is required; an inability to deal with a situation.

As in the example above, the woman feels her beauty is inadequate for the king. “Do not stare at me” she says.

She attributes her lack of beauty to an abusive situation: “My mother’s sons were angry with me… my own vineyard [body] I had to neglect.”

Yet she yearns…

The woman’s sense of inadequacy is confirmed in the New Testament:

“Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.”

Ephesians 5:21

“Reverence” is translated from the Greek ‘phobos‘ which means fear, specifically a withdrawal because feeling inadequate.

The first relationship Paul lists as being based on reverence is the husband and wife relationship.

The woman is supposed to feel inadequate in the presence of her man, and thus she reverences him.

This sense of inadequacy is both the foundation of respect and sexual arousal

If you don’t believe this, I challenge you to come up with ANY female sexual fantasy that does not include a sense of inadequacy on part of the woman.

Every sexual fantasy involves the woman facing a situation she cannot overcome and surrendering her body as a result.

As a man, you do not need to control your woman’s behavior through rewards and punishments. You’re not dealing with a lab rat.

You simply need to be a few steps ahead in your personal development than her so that she feels inadequate in your presence.

If you’re having trouble developing yourself as a man due to “overthinking”, the framework I use is specifically designed to solve that problem. You can read about it here:

Tribalism and killer robots

Here’s something that might titillate your manly ambitions…

@naval recently tweeted a compelling vision of our future:

“The distant future is small free cities with drone armies and skill-based immigration policies, surrounded by a sea of failed socialist states.”

These “small free cities” are a plausible scenario. The trends are already happening.

And we know the governments of the world are fragile. In due time, they will collapse.

So where does that leave us?

The most natural order is to return to a form of tribalism.

Large collectivist communities are fragile and ripe for disruption. The natural order is small tribes led by an alpha male.

Whenever a group exceeds about 150 people there is an opportunity for an alpha to identify a segment of under-served people and start his own tribe.

Demand for alpha males will be greater than ever. But most men will be soyed over and pacified via sex dolls

Meanwhile, as @AJA_Cortes put it:

“The elite and sovereign individuals enjoy farmed meat and dairy raised in protected enclaves surrounded by hunter/killer drones”

If you manage to retain your masculinity in this “brave new world” and build yourself a little war chest, you could literally end up a chief of your own tribe.

You could even be a king of your own f*cking city!

Let that sink in for a moment.

What are the perks of leading your own tribe?

1. First choice of mate
2. Eat like a king

Plus the satisfaction of doing good in the world, protecting innocent lives, establishing your own culture, and all that good stuff.

We don’t know exactly how the future will play out. But one thing we do know:

Masculine men will always be needed. The supply is going down and value is increasing.

You may be half the man as your great-grandfather, but in the land of eunuchs, the half-man gets to be king.

Speaking of building your own tribe…

I have an in-depth article that shows you how to prepare yourself for such a future. It’s written especially for smart guys who struggle with “overthinking.”

Check it out here:

How incels screw up the red pill

I’ve written before that I consider red pill philosophy to be a gift from God.

I’ve learned important truths about women that I simply was not recognizing on my own.


Some men can still turn a blessing into a curse.

There is a deep divide in the red pill “community.” It centers around the issue of hypergamy.

Some men like to focus on what is wrong with women. They point and jeer behind the safety of a computer screen. “Look at what these women are doing! This is why the West is screwed.”

Men who complain about hypergamy are dumb asses.

Yes, you may have gotten “screwed over.” But it was ignorance of reality that screwed you, not women.

If you need to vent your anger, blame the systems that kept you in the dark:

– The school system
– Feminist media
– The church

Use your anger as energy to build a better future.

Don’t let the next generation of men go through the same shit you went through. You have a part to play in this narrative of unplugging from the lies.

Awareness can feel like a burden. But it is the first step to leadership.

If you want to channel your red pill awareness into something productive, I have an in-depth article on my site that shows you how.

To my knowledge, it’s the most comprehensive solution to the “overthinking” problem faced by many red pill men.

On leading a woman

Here’s something interesting I discovered about a man’s biblical leadership…

Christian men, if they even believe in headship, typically assume they’re supposed to be the “spiritual leader” (e.g. leading family devotions).

Ironically, this is not what the Bible teaches…

Ephesians 5 tells us the man’s active duty:

…having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, that He might present to Himself the church in all her glory

Just as Christ:Church so Man:Wife.

You probably knew that.

But here’s where it gets interesting…

Few Christians realize that “washing” the woman and the presentation is an allusion to the ancient practice of a king preparing his consort:

Your breasts had formed and your hair had grown, yet you were stark naked.

“‘Later I passed by, and when I looked at you and saw that you were old enough for love, I spread the corner of my garment over you and covered your naked body. I gave you my solemn oath and entered into a covenant with you, declares the Sovereign Lord, and you became mine.

“‘I bathed you with water and washed the blood from you and put ointments on you. I clothed you with an embroidered dress and put sandals of fine leather on you. I dressed you in fine linen and covered you with costly garments. I adorned you with jewelry: I put bracelets on your arms and a necklace around your neck, and I put a ring on your nose, earrings on your ears and a beautiful crown on your head. So you were adorned with gold and silver; your clothes were of fine linen and costly fabric and embroidered cloth. Your food was honey, olive oil and the finest flour. You became very beautiful and rose to be a queen. And your fame spread among the nations on account of your beauty, because the splendor I had given you made your beauty perfect, declares the Sovereign Lord.

Ezekiel 16:7-14 [emphasis mine]

Scripture interprets scripture.

If a meaning of a metaphor isn’t immediately clear, we do not turn to theology. We search the Scriptures.

The man’s biblical duty is to beautify the woman’s body for HIS pleasure. (c.f. Eph 5:25-29; Es 2:12; Ps 45:13-14; Ezk 16:7-14)

Churchians have tried to hide this great (erotic) truth from men by emphasizing that it is “God’s word” that cleanses the woman.

But this is not what the Scriptures say. Men imitate Christ by cleansing their bride through “rhema” – a thing spoken, a matter of business.

There is no reference to “God’s” word.

Most “Bible believers” will be offended by this.

Their minds have become dull through repeated exposure to church traditions.

But you can look it up for yourself. Use a tool like  to examine the underlying Greek.

I’m not here for the hard-hearted and dim-witted.

I’m here for those willing to slow down, examine the nuances, and extract the wisdom.

The church is ran by the dogmas of overconfident idiots

If you are sincerely seeking wisdom from God’s word, here’s a good place to start.